Wanted 29 Years Old Male, 29栽男の人を探す, Dicari Pria Usia 29 tahun

Judulnya menipu.

Post ini ditujukan untuk seorang sahabat yang mengalami euforia berlebihan terhadap pria 29 tahun.

What's so special about 29 years old male?? Berikut adalah sedikit usaha saya dalam menganalisis alasan sang teman.. (yang bersangkutan dilarang protes)

1. Jauh dari usia ABG, belum masuk usia bapak bapak.
2. Dua tahun lebih tua dari usia sang teman, lebih dewasa dari dia(harapannya), tapi masih mampu mengimbangi dinamika 'muda'nya.
3. Usia dimana pria telah lelah bertualang cinta dan mencari ketenangan hidup lewat pernikahan
4. Usia dimana sang pria mulai mencari pasangan hidup karena teman2 single-nya sudah mulai ber'pasangan'
5. Alasan utama dan paling reasonable untuk case teman saya :SHE HAS A CRUSH ON A HANDSOME 29 YEARS OLD MALE WITH BEAUTIFUL EYES :))

Apapun alasannya dan latar belakangnya, I always wish 'the best one', 'the perfect one' for her, who has beautiful eyes... karena sepertinya mata adalah suatu yg krusial untuknya dan yang paling penting menjadi sahabat dan cinta sejatinya seumur hidupnya :) :)

Anyone interested???

Absent-minded dreaming days

It is interesting and fun to create a new imaginary life in parallel with your existent life. It is like having the ability to control 2 lifes at a time. It helps you overcome the tension for not having 'perfect-life-you-have-been-imagining'.

I developed this behaviour throughout the seminars, group meetings, conferences which all were held in Japanese. In some earlier moments, I worked out so hard in understanding all the discussion and expected to be able to comprehend the stuff being discussed. The effort was the usage of electric dictionary, dictionary, asking labmates, and any means of absorbing information. But this activities turned out to be boring, tiresome and most of all.. useless. I got minor progress compared to the attempts I have made out. And staying all days in the lab without establishing any conversation with Japanese,who prefer to remain in silence :D, boosts the tendency.

Then I started to enforce this peculiar ability. Autis time, so to speak (my friend's quotes), is the time when I make myself stay in a steady position, act as if I was listening to surroundings or concentrating.. but instead of listening, my mind is wandering in search for entertaining images which I have been longing for. Meeting Hirai Ken, for instance, is one of images that is reappeared intentionally ha ha ha. Helps me a lot in relaxing mind among the mundane activities. Some words of advice from me is, for inexperience persons doing this... dont go way too far from reality. Keep your mind on the track. How real this imaginary life looks for you.. well it is still not a reality. And don't sleep... otherwise sensei will get really angry :P

Kimitachi... watashino tomodachi

Kemarin dengerin lagunya Hirai Ken Kimi wa tomodachi (You are my friend). Jadi inget sama HiMaPi-ers....

HiMapi -Himpunan Mahasiswa Penyebar Isu- beranggotakan Wawan, Lily, Nana, Endri, Nurul, Rosita dan Eldi. Terbentuk masa2 TPB, tepatnya hari2 menjelang presentasi Pancasila.

Kalo dilihat per-individunya, bener2 keanekaragaman deh, bukan dari ras tapi juga dari pribadinya. Mulai dari yg cerewet sampai yg kalem, mulai dari yg pinter sampe yg bego, mulai dari yg sensitif sampai yg super tidak sensitif.

Tapi bukan di sana letak uniknya. Himapi adalah media pertama aku mengenal persahabatan. Real friendship. Membangun relationship dari alur yang berbeda menuju satu muara. Unite different thoughts. Konflik selalu ada, hampir selalu ada, selama 5 tahun kebersamaan.. dan di akhir masa studi kita, banyak hal yg membuat aku lebih menghargai arti teman :) dan belajar mengenal diri sendiri.

Miss u all guys, dimanapun kalian berada :) :)

HiMaPi-ers 

日本の生活/My Life in Japan

After 1 year living in Japan...

1st - 3rd month --> I spent every minute by the thoughts of leaving Japan whenever possible. I hated the country, the unfriendly faces, problems of communication, the weather, the TV programs, my laboratory, the food and kept on regretting my decision of leaving Indonesia .. I even hated the fact of having a very busy sensei that I didn't have any chance to cancel my study here.

4th-10th month--> I met mmm.. should I name 'family'. The survival spirit they offerred made me realize that I originally have the natural-surviving-courage or whatever the name is to overcome my problems here. It didn't make my life here easy but... at least I learned how to manage it better. Many things happened. From the looks of the things, I generally enjoyed all events. It had ups and downs (as what people always says), but surprisingly... I AM HAPPY.

11th month-Now --> I very much appreciate my life in Japan. I have great friends, great sensei, great life... I could not ask for more :). In my conclusion... I understand why Japan becomes a great country. Look at the people... very organized, independent, hardworking, selfless. Never thought that the place I really hate at first become a place I enjoy living in. Feel like home. I even enjoy the TV shows now. Padahal sumpah deh garing banget... :P

Selalu ada makna di setiap kejadian dalam hidup kita, kalau saja kita mau sedikit berhenti dan melihat. Deshou... ?

Intro

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